Jai ho! May brings music, movies, masti and art events in Toronto

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Punjabi Virsa Arts and Culture Academy & Nachdi Jawani Association are hosting their 14th Inter-Academy Junior Bhangra and Gidha competition at Chinguacousy Secondary School, 1370 Williams Pkwy. Brampton, from 11 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.

Punjabi Virsa Arts and Culture Academy & Nachdi Jawani Association are hosting their 14th Inter-Academy Junior Bhangra and Gidha competition at Chinguacousy Secondary School, 1370 Williams Pkwy. Brampton, from 11 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.

Spring has finally sprung. From spiritual concerts to foot-tapping bhangra and gidda competition, there’s something for everyone.

Lopa Sarkar photo credit Baz KandaEvent: Monster Arts for Youth (MAY)
Details: Bollywood Monster Mashup, the largest South Asian festival in Canada, will be hosting the second year of its Monster Arts for Youth (MAY) program this May, as part of the South Asian Heritage Month. Students of Derry West Village Public School in Mississauga will benefit from two MAY workshops: one by Sheniz Janmohamed, author, spoken word artist educator and founder of Ignite Poets and the other by Lopa Sarkar, a renowned fusion dance choreographer.
“We are excited to provide world-class artists to work with youth in our local schools,” says Vikas Kohli, artistic director, Bollywood Monster Mashup. “This program is important as it allows the students to use creative learning techniques to embrace each other’s culture and create something new and unique.”

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Event: Hot Docs (Made In India program)
Details: Canadian International Documentary Festival will host a special Made In India documentary Small Things, Big Things at Scotia Bank Theatre, 259 Richmond St. W. Toronto; from 4:30 to 6:30 p.m. Tickets cost $17/person and can be purchased here.

Satnam KaurTuesday, May 5 – 6
Event: Spiritual concert
Details: Snatam Kaur
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If fax machines could talk: The Datawind story

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Raja (L) and Suneet Singh Tuli are brothers with a Midas touch. Their Canadian company, Datawind, has bridged the digital gap with its affordable devices. Supplied photo.

Some people equate their net worth with their self-worth.

Suneet Singh Tuli doesn’t need constant validation from the tech-industry to acknowledge the impressive feats his company Datawind has pulled off since it was founded.

The Tuli family’s spirit of enterprise grounded in deep-rooted spirituality powers not their devices, but the company’s strong corporate social responsibility (CSR) initiatives as well.

Datawind’s UbiSlate tablet—which retails at $37.99 — may not enjoy the same cult status the Apples and Samsungs do, but, it’s safe to say the devices are transforming the lives of the millions of people in developing countries by giving them access to technology.

Whenever an email from a remote school in Uganda or India with photographs of children holding a UbiSlate device lands on his inbox, Suneet, 46, says he feels a sense of fulfillment.

“When your business impacts something or someone, then it becomes fun,” Suneet said. “The real satisfaction comes when you can get people connected and excited about technology.

Suneet’s says although he’s the face of the company, his intensely private older brother, Raja, 48, is the one whose idea it was to come up with a low-cost tablet.

The Garage Story

So many tech startups in Silicon Valley and elsewhere can trace their origins to ubiquitous garages. These windowless spaces have served as an incubator to rock stars and tech mavericks alike.

For starters, the Datawind’s Garage Story did not start in the garage. It began in Yukon.

The Tulis immigrated from Iran in 1979 and put down roots in Fort McMurray, (Alberta). Lakhbeer Singh Tuli (Suneet and Raja’s father) started a construction company that primarily built bridges in remote areas of Canada. His sons, Raja and Suneet, spend their summers working for their dad.

One of the sites was in Pelly Crossing in Yukon.

One summer, the ever-perceptive Raja, noticed staff cutting strips of technical drawings, individually feeding them into the fax machine, and then gluing the pieces together.

Raja was convinced there had to be a better way. So, he hit upon the idea to build a large fax machine from scratch. He sourced the materials, designed and assembled it. This fax machine one could accommodate large format engineering drawings without mutilating them.

Raja, who was a fresh graduate, approached his dad to loan him the seed money to commercially market the “world’s largest fax machine.”

Tuli Sr. agreed to fund the enterprise. The fledgling company (Widecom) then hired experienced sales guys to market the product, but six months into the venture, sales went cold.

At this point, Suneet, a natural salesman, was pursuing his engineering degree at the University of Toronto. He suggested to Raja they contact the Guinness Book of World Records (GBWR) and submit the fax machine for consideration as the world’s largest fax machine. Raja was initially skeptical, but Suneet convinced him.

The fax machine made it into the silver book.

Then everything unfolded seamlessly. Fortune 500 magazine devoted a quarter-page to the Tuli brothers and their ingenuity. Some weeks later, British Petroleum (BP) placed an order for 12 machines, each costing $20,000 each.

“In 1992, there were no prominent desis (Indians) in either Wall Street or Bay Street,” Suneet said. “Worse, there was a backlash against turbaned people (with flowing beards) because of the Iranian Revolution. So, when the fax machine took off, we represented a “Made in Canada” success story, a story, featuring young immigrant kids that had succeeded against all odds.”

The Tuli brothers were in their mid-20s when they made their first million, or rather $8 million.

The wide-format fax machine was a timely innovation and a huge hit. The brothers floated WideCom on NASDAQ. Corporate giant Xerox expressed interest in acquiring the company, but the Tuli brothers passed on Xerox’s offer.

In hindsight, one can bemoan their decision was a bit short-sighted, however, in the long run, it helped Raja and Suneet to explore new and emerging technologies, instead of resting on one laurel.

The brothers launched Datawind Inc. in 2000.

“We always had our father’s support and learned from his willingness to lose and risk things,” Suneet said. “Our father paid for our tuition and the seed fund for the fax machine. Having his backing told us, it was OK to risk and lose. But, that early success also provided us with confidence.”

Stay tuned. In the next part, Toronto Desi Diaries will reveal how the world’s least expensive tablet/phablet has been able to connect profit margins with philanthropy.

 

Mark your calendars for music, dance and PM Narendra Modi’s visit

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They say April showers bring May flowers.

I am all for it, as long as it’s not the dreaded white stuff that the blue skies kept dumping on us. No doubt that stuff looks pristine and oh so romantic when a Bollywood starlet is cavorting in a chiffon saree, but trust me, it’s nuisance.

So here you go, enjoy some of these 2015 April events in the Greater Toronto Area.

Saturday, April 4 – 25Naach Meri Jaan

Event: Naach Meri Jaan

Details: Toronto Centre for Arts, 5040 Yonge Street, Toronto, will be pulsating with rhythm and tempo as a dance competition by Glitterati Entertainment and Sanskriti Arts gets underway. Pria Haider and Naved Jaffrey are bringing the dance competition to promote South Asian talent in forms such as Bhangra, Bollywood, Fusion, etc.

Contact: Tickets can be purchased here

Saturday, April 18Ustad Rahat Fateh

Event: Ustad Rahat Fateh Ali (concert)

Details: Hershey Centre, 5500 Rose Cherry Place, will host Ustad Rahat Fateh Ali for a concert kicking-off at 8:30 p.m.

Contact: For tickets and more details, visit here

 

BaisakhiEvent: Baisakhi Bonanza

Details: Dilwale Dilliwale is hosting a celebration of Baisakhi with an evening of music (Geet), Sufi poetry and Ghazals at Sagan Banquet Hall, 7180 Edwards Blvd. Tickets cost $50/person and includes dinner.

Contact: For information and tickets, visit here

 

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Event: NaMo in Toronto

Details: Indian Prime Minister Narendra Modi will be in Toronto, Wednesday, April 15 at the Ricoh Coliseum, 45 Manitoba Dr., Toronto, ON M6K 3C3 at

This is Modi’s first bilateral visit. Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper and Modi are expected to discuss trade and economic ties.

Contact: here

 

Burq Off! unveils hypocrisy with humour

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Burq Off! a show by Brooklyn native Nadia Manzoor is a hilarious commentary of a young girl’s search for identity in two opposing cultures: modern London and her Muslim upbringing. The show runs March 18-21 at Small World Music Centre, 180 Shaw St. Studio 101 in Toronto. Photo by John Keon.

Warning!

If you’re a buttoned-up prude easily offended by people that rip-off the band-aid on religion and hypocritical zealots who preach it, stop right here. Don’t bother reading this further.

Nadia Manzoor is an actor, artist, activist and rebel. Her upcoming show Burq Off! running at Small World Music, 180 Shaw St. in Toronto, March 18-21 has elements that will likely: a)make you squirm b)pray for salvation c) prompt you to speed dial the religious/moral police  D) remove the cobwebs from you mind and eyes  E) Provide a compelling, yet hilarious commentary of the changing times and religion’s inability to keep up.

The show’s brand of humour will either shock the audience into silence or tickle their funny bone until they are a helpless mass of mirth sprawled on the floor.

Nadia, a Brooklyn native landed in North America via Karachi, Singapore, Dubai and Hertfordshire, U.K. pokes fun of misogynist men, antiquated customs, silly rituals and our insecurities about the west.

BURQ OFF! THE SHOW

In Burq Off! Nadia pulls off 21 characters: a stern father, a saucy English friend, Islamic studies’ teachers and few dozen others. The show reveals the cultural tug-of-war of a young Muslim straddling two cultures that are completely at odds with each other — the modern woman versus the dutiful Muslim daughter.

“My struggle in Burq Off! is about reconciling my conservative upbringing with my own liberal questioning,” Nadia said. “At the time, it seemed I couldn’t have stayed true to my ‘religion’, or at least the way I was taught religion, and my own independent thought and inquiry. As a result I felt like I had to step away from those definitions.”

Nadia Manzoor with her Dad, Parvez. Nadia's one-woman show Burq Off! pokes fun at her father's conservative ideas which often clashed with her own modern views. The show runs March 18-21 in Toronto. Submitted photo.

Nadia Manzoor with her Dad, Parvez. Nadia’s one-woman show Burq Off! pokes fun at her father’s conservative ideas which often clashed with her own modern views. The show runs March 18-21 in Toronto. Submitted photo.

A witty banter between Nadia and her father Parvez many moons ago describes the premise of Burq Off!
When Nadia was old enough to realize the world was hers for taking, she announced to her Dad she wanted to become an astronaut.

“Request denied; God is great. Who will cook for your husband?” her Dad rued?

Growing up in a predominantly white neighbourhood and attending a Christian school meant a constant tussle and confrontation at home.

BEING HUMAN

“It seemed like what was more important at the time was how other people defined you,” Nadia recalled. “If you were dating a white Irish man, you couldn’t have been a very good Muslim. But in my heart, I was deeply connected with the divine and have always been. But people label you and define you according to their own set of beliefs, so stepping away from my ‘religion’ and culture was really me stepping away from the people that kept trying to define me. I needed to define myself.”

In a world torn by religious strife and unnecessary chest thumping, Nadia’s show brings a fresh and necessary perspective to the stale debate about religious freedoms.

“Liberal Muslims are definitely under represented, and the orthodox people get all the attention, and also by proxy end up defining people’s understanding of the religion,” she says. “Can you be a Muslim and date a white guy and wear bikinis and drink alcohol?”

 NIRVANA THROUGH HUMOUR

Humour was Nadia’s coping mechanism growing up. It has since become her livelihood, arsenal to deliver punches and life’s calling.

“In every way imaginable. I’ve found my purpose,” she said. “Not meaning to be all existential, but the first time I performed there was this moment when everything in my life, and all the struggle, and everything that I had done until that moment just made sense. It was like finding my calling. As a result I have a newfound confidence in why I’m here and why I exist. If that’s not transformational, I don’t know what is. My whole life has become about continuing to use my creativity for change….”

LIGHTS, SET, ACTION

Burq Off! a one-woman show by Brooklyn native Nadia Manzoor who plays 21 different characters will run March 18-21 at Small World Music Centre, 180 Shaw St. Studio 101 in Toronto.

Burq Off! a one-woman show by Brooklyn native Nadia Manzoor who plays 21 different characters will run March 18-21 at Small World Music Centre, 180 Shaw St. Studio 101 in Toronto.

Tara Elliot, the director and one of the co-producers, hit it off with Nadia when their paths crossed. As a one-woman show, Nadia carries Burq Off! on her shoulders with relative ease, but to make the show as an interactive experience, Tara had to make sure Nadia’s storytelling was enhanced.

“I wanted to create a playground for Nadia that was visually engaging, transformative, and yet aesthetically simple,” Tara said. “Fabric is easily transformable, and so it became a part of the storytelling in my mind at a pretty early point. Then, through play and experimentation in rehearsal, I found that the use of fabric was all we needed regarding props and costumes in order to portray the range of characters and situations. The set of fabric is beautiful and rich, but also perhaps, restrictive. It is layered, and as with all layers, one might ask the question of what it is covering up…”

Paprika Productions will stop by Toronto for shows at Small World Music, 180 Shaw St. in Toronto from March 18-21. Two matinee shows have been added now. Tickets cost $25/person and can be purchased here.

Somebody drag the spring here: March Madness events to thaw the ice

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DowryThursday, March 5

Event: Film premiere

Details: The world premiere of the film Dowry is happening at Cineplex Scotiabank Theatre, 259 Richmond St. W. from 8:30 p.m. to 10:10 p.m.

The film directed by Jag Parmar. Parmar a screenwriter, director and founder of Inseyet Films, follows the wedding of Mausam, a girl from a poor family. The roadblock? Mausam’s family needs to arrange for her dowry. Things however get complicated when Mausam’s disabled sister Gia falls in love and wants a dowry for her own wedding. Tickets cost $10/person (adult) and $5/student.

Friday, March 6Maneka Thakkar

Event: Dance performance

Details: In the Soil, an encore performance by Meneka Thakkar (Kalanidhi Dance Stream Series) will take place, Friday, Mar 6 at Bloor Hot Doc Cinemas, 506 Bloor St. W. from 3:30 p.m. to 4:30 p.m.
The 2015 encore show will feature 20 company dancers and students from the school performing in classical Bharatnatyam, Odissi and contemporary works. he title of this production comes from a poem by Rabindranath Tagore in which he speaks of the Banyan Tree that not only grows in its own soil but reaches its roots to the further soil which is an apt metaphor for the growth of Indian dance in Canada through the activities of Thakkar
Contact: 905-763-6083 ext. 28 or email: mtdc@menakathakkardance.org

Saturday, March 7

pataka guddiEvent: Patakha Guddi
Details: PGA International will be hosting a Bollywood Dance Night Patakha Guddi at 10 p.m. at Throne Entertainment Venue, 200 Advance Blvd. Brampton. Tickets cost $20/person.
Contact: 647-344-5566 or 647-887-4449

Sunday, March 8

Event: KC Canada’s Holi
Details: March is here. I can’t believe Holi is just around the corner. With the frigid arctic air plunging the temperatures to -25C, the folks at KC Group Canada have it all figured out. Theirs is an Holiindoor colour run with music, food and fun.
The group will celebrate Holi, Sunday, March 8 at National Banquet Hall, 7355 Torbram Rd. in Mississauga. Revelry starts at 11:30 a.m. Tickets cost $35/adult (early bird) and $40/adult regular and $25/child (ages 5-12)
Contact: Sanjeev: 416-985-0287, Rajeev: 647-887-4190 or Shilpi: 905-782-6260

Saturday, March 14

 Event: Concert
Details: Adnan Sami, a musician, pianist and composer of Pakistani origin with a high sensibility of Indian and western classical/semi-classical, pop and other genres of music will be performing a live concert in Toronto.
The event is taking place at Hershey Centre, 5500 Rose Cherry Place, Mississauga at 7 p.m. Tickets cost $27 to $ 67.
Contact: To buy tickets here

Event: International Women’s Day

Details: Brown Sugar, a community for urban progressive South Asians Brownies with liberal values will be hosting an International Women’s Day event at Capitol Banquet Hall, 6435 Dixie Rd. Mississauga from 6 p.m. onwards. There will be keynote speakers, live music performances, a fashion show and more. Proceeds will benefit local women’s shelters. Tickets cost $30/person (adults) and $15/ child (under 12 years).
Contact: To join/attend, visit here 

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 Interested in getting the word out about your upcoming events in Toronto? Please send your submissions to: Toronto.desidiaries@gmail.com. Deadline is a month before your event is scheduled.

How a gay Hindu wedding in Toronto changed the conversation

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Rishi (left) and Dan married in 2011 in a traditional Hindu wedding. The couple are talking about their same-sex wedding and their individual journies in the hopes of creating awareness about LGBT issues. Supplied photo.

Rishi (left) and Dan married in 2011 in a traditional Hindu wedding. The couple are talking about their same-sex wedding and their individual journeys in the hopes of creating awareness about LGBT issues. Photo courtesy of Channa Photography.

Daniel Langdon and Rishi Agarwal’s love story is not a one-dimensional, linear relationship of two gay men falling in love and getting married.

Instead, when you analyze their relationship from the perspective of the society, cultural norms and religion, the central characters of this saga are not the two grooms, but, the Hindu priest that risked condemnation of his peers to perform all the rituals; Rishi’s parents – Vijay and Sushma – whose acceptance and unconditional love will hopefully help change the narrative of homosexuality within the Indian community here in North America and Daniel’s family who embraced Rishi and his culture.

These folks put aside their own pre-conceived ideas just so Rishi and Dan could experience the same happiness a heterosexual couple would have under similar circumstances.

RELIGION: Growing up in a Hindu home, Rishi learned the traditions by osmosis. As a kid, he was was bullied. He remembers coming home from school; heading straight to the mandir (temple) in his home and breaking down in front of the deity.

“Faith was very important for me,” Rishi said. “It helped me get through all of the struggles I went through as a child. My connection to that (force) we don’t fully understand is through Hindu rituals. So, for me to have a wedding and it not be a Hindu wedding was impossible.”

Daniel and Rishi were married in 2011, so why are we telling this now? This story is timeless because the couple realizes the enormous challenges gay people around the world face. The two accountants living in Toronto are aware that for individuals identifying themselves as gay within the desi community, the road is uphill.

Many choose to remain in the closet fearing the wrath of parents and the community. Rishi and Dan said they want to open a dialogue on homosexuality, religion and acceptance to prompt a social change.

It has been three years since their Big Fat Gay Hindu Wedding, but theirs may have been the only gay Hindu wedding to incorporate all elements of tradition, culture and the whole nine yards. There have been no others since then. Even though religion was not a huge factor in Dan’s coming out, he knew as soon as he connected with Rishi that Hinduism would be an integral part of their wedding and life afterwards as a married couple.

It takes a family to make a wedding memorable. From L to R: Vijay, Rishi, Dan and Sushma at the same-sex Hindu wedding of their son, Rishi with Dan. Supplied photo.

It takes a family to make a wedding memorable. From L to R: Vijay, Rishi, Dan and Sushma at the same-sex Hindu wedding of their son, Rishi with Dan. Photo courtesy, Channa Photography.

“I really like Hinduism,” Dan said. “It has a very open-minded approach to practicing it and it’s inwardly reflective. What I like is that the rituals are prescribed, but the actual thinking –at least from my experience –isn’t. So, it’s up to the individual to make that connection…”

WEDDING: Rishi remembers the day he came out to his parents. At first, they were speechless and sat in stunned silence. Then, they spent the next 72 hours researching and reading about homosexuality and trying to educate themselves. So, when a nervous Rishi, tentatively asked his parents if they expected him to move out of the house, his father told him, “Absolutely not. You’re still our son and we love you…”

His parents’ acceptance made Rishi’s journey that much easier, unlike so many others. In high school, Rishi knew of a gay Sikh boy who committed suicide when his parents refused to accept his homosexuality. Rishi and Dan’s wedding was a magical affair with all the bells and whistles. The Sangeet took place at the Agarwal house and Dan’s family put together a musical along the lines of 12 Days of Christmas.

The grooms had matching henna motifs of the other person’s initials. During the planning of the wedding, several Hindu priests turned down the Agarwals, finally, a maharaj ji, agreed to perform the rituals. It was poignant, memorable and a path-breaking affair. The garlands were sewn with red and white roses accented with blue and green orchids. The grooms looked resplendent in Sherwanis. Dan opted for a pale blue one with silver sequins while Rishi chose gold and crimson attire.

JAI AND VEERU: In 2013, the couple made a trip to India, and rather than explain their relationship to tour guides and hotel concierges, Rishi told everyone he and Dan were like Jai and Veeru of Sholay. That description was so apt and universally well received that it made a mystic journey to a land where homosexuality is frowned upon smooth and hassle free.

HUMOUR: I knew Rish and Dan were made-for-each other when 10 minutes into our conversation, Dan delivered a “baniya” joke with a straight face. It was when I asked them their plans for Valentine’s Day and Dan replied, “We don’t believe in Valentine’s Day, but since we are baniyas, we will probably celebrate it the next day!” FYI (In India, the Baniya community, which the Agarwals belong to are made fun of for their tight-fistedness).

In 2011, Dan and Rishi, had a gay Hindu wedding that succeeded in breaking stereotypes. Today, the couple are telling their story in the hopes of creating awareness. Supplied photo

In 2011, Dan and Rishi, had a gay Hindu wedding that succeeded in breaking stereotypes. Today, the couple are telling their story in the hopes of creating awareness. Photo courtesy of Channa Photography.

And so, when the talk of cuisine came up, Rishi gleefully narrated the story of how an unsuspecting Dan ended up taking a big bite of the spicy Indian jalapeno peppers (known as green chillies) that his Mom had garnished the yoghurt dip with. He assumed they were string beans and quite literally turned a deep shade of crimson.

Mirth aside, the two Torontonians, who met online and fell in love, know they are fortunate.

“I am happy and proud to be Canadian because we are in the forefront when it comes to gay rights,” Rishi said. “Also, I am proud to be living in Toronto because we have such a large Indian community that we were able to arrange for everything (for a wedding). To have a gay Hindu wedding is not something that can be done in any city in the world…”

“There’s also a big unspoken part that people don’t speak about and that is the limited understanding and acceptance about gay issues. I think in Toronto and the rest of the world, there still needs to be a greater awareness about LGBT issues. We need a lot more education,” he said. “A lot of couples will do a court marriage, the difference in our case was: we had our parents’ support. You cannot do a Hindu wedding without family and friends…”

If you like art that’s edgy, then you’ll love Vishal Misra’s work

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Vishal Misra, an accomplished artist/illustrator seen here with his work. The Toronto accountant has successfully made a name for himself here in North America with his works. Supplied photo.

Vishal Misra, an accomplished artist/illustrator, has successfully made a name for himself here in North America with his works. Supplied photo.

Before you read on, I want you to:

Mentally strip all existing artwork from the walls of your favourite room; ditch the decorative curios, collectibles and what not crammed in the tables and sideboards.

Then, in your mind’s eye, visualize a Vishal Misra art (large acrylic canvas featuring a subliminal Indian theme) placed strategically at eye-level.

Each time I have performed this exercise, I have been stunned by how Vishal’s work can complete any space with its hypnotic presence. The room doesn’t need anything else to embellish it.

Here’s neat thing; one doesn’t have to be a connoisseur of art or schooled in some aspect of it to appreciate the lines and the stroke of his brush and the harmony of colours.

Vishal’s repertoire of subjects spans the breadth of human consciousness. Spiritualism, eroticism and street scenes from India are all elevated into abstract pieces that speak to you on a visceral level.

Recognize a whiff of Picasso or M.F. Hussain in Vishal’s work? That’s incidental. The Toronto artist/illustrator admits he’s self-taught and heavily influenced by the cubistic styles of the two masters.

During the day, this transplant from Mumbai, handles numbers, financial projections and audits. In the evenings and weekends, he transforms into an all-consuming artist completely lost in the pigment of his imagination. Yes, that’s a “pigment” not figment.

“As an accountant and artist, I balance two lifestyles,” Vishal says. “Between 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. the left brain is boxed in with rules, regulations and numbers, but then when I am on the GO Train and I get my hands on a blank page, I feel can do whatever I want and let the right brain take over.”

Well, it was in the train Vishal realized the potential of his talent.

Vishal Misra, a transplant from Mumbai, has a deep connection with Lord Ganesh. His interpretation of the Elephant God elevates the piece. Vishal, a well-recognized artist commands four-figure numbers for his artworks and is well-known in Toronto. Supplied photo.

Vishal Misra, a transplant from Mumbai, has a deep connection with Lord Ganesh. His interpretation of the Elephant God elevates the piece to a subliminal experience. Supplied photo.

A few years after Vishal immigrated to Canada, he was on the train, doodling away and oblivious to his surroundings when a fellow passenger asked him if he would give her the sketch he was working on. Vishal refused. The woman persisted and then offered him $50.

“The accountant in me became interested when she offered the money,” he recalled. “That was the first time I realized that people would actually pay for my art.”

Born to middle-class parents, Vishal grew up in Mumbai. Even though his Dad dabbled in art (purely as a hobby), his parents believed academics was the only thing that mattered. And like every other South Asian parents on the planet, the Misras too wanted their son to become either a doctor or an engineer.

When Vishal landed in Toronto, he went back to school, upgraded his education and soon after landed a job with a well-known accounting firm. At this time, he began to reconnect with the easel and the brush and became a member of the Mississauga Arts Council (MAC). The consortium helped him to grow, network and interact with other artists.

Over the last eight years, Vishal’s works have graced the walls of numerous solo and group exhibitions in Canada, the U.S., Asia, Middle East and Europe. Some of his bigger works currently command four figures and an artist, Vishal is well recognized here in North America.
In 2005, Vishal met and married Anu Vittal, an artist as well and began to articulate his emotions through art. In Anu, Vishal found his muse. Sketches with underlying tones of eroticism soon began filling his sketchbook.

“I wanted to explore the idea of a human relationship and how it grows, evolves and continues,” he explained. “Sexuality is a big part of that because it represents an intersection of emotional and physical aspect of the relationship.”

Vishal then decided to interject contemporary and western-style elements to traditional Kama Sutra images. His fresh linear look offers a new perspective to century-old art.

Toronto native Vishal Misra took the traditional positions of Kama Sutra, an ancient Indian tome on sexuality and added a modern and contemporary twist to it.
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“I wanted the sketches to be both evocative and provocative,” he said. “I interplay the interaction of various positions of the male and female form beyond the realm of black and white.”

In each and every piece, Vishal infuses his art with his interpretation of events. He begins by capturing an idea then distorting it so that the viewer sees in it what they want to see.

You can take a peek at Vishal’s portfolio here.

 

January marks new beginnings for desis with Pongal and Lohri

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So, seeing Indians world over are getting ready to celebrate festivals of renewal and new beginnings,  Toronto Desi Diaries has decided to introduce a new feature: a monthly events calendar.

The idea is to shine the spotlight on some of the desi events taking place in the Greater Toronto Area. So, if you or your organization has something coming up and would like it to be featured on the blog, shoot me all the relevant details (What, where, when along with a high-rez photograph) and send it to: Toronto.desidiaries@gmail.com. Deadline to submit is a month in advance.

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Pongal is a four-day harvest festival celebrated in Tamil Nadu and is similar to the Makar Sankranti and Lohri festivals of the north. This year, the four-day Pongal falls on Jan. 14 to 17.

The festival can be called the Tamilian equivalent of Thanksgiving. The traditional fare in most homes consists of bounties of a good harvest. In homes, rice, sambar, medhu vadas, assorted vegetables topped off with a dessert called Sarkara Pongal made with rice and jaggery and seasoned with a dollop of ghee will likely be simmering on the stoves soon.

Homes are decorated with kolam (rangoli) and people wear new clothes. The festival is dedicated to the Sun (Surya) God.

In Toronto, the Bharathi Kala Manram will begin the year in an auspicious way with its the 2015 annual Pongal celebrations. The event will feature cultural events, the group’s annual general meeting, socializing and more and will take place at the Yorkwoods Public Library, Finch Ave, Downsview, on Saturday, Jan. 17 between 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. Please email, info@manram.org to participate.

Just a quick note: Bharathi Kala Manram was started in 1969 as a portal to celebrate South Indian culture and traditions. The organization enhances its mandate with Indian classical events and Carnatic music concerts.

 2015 Lohri for Her

The 2015 Lohri for Her will take place Sunday, Jan. 25 at the Versailles Convention Centre at 6721 Edwards Blvd. Mississauga at 5 p.m. The event is hosted by Nach Balliye. Supplied photo

The 2015 Lohri for Her will take place Sunday, Jan. 25 at the Versailles Convention Centre at 6721 Edwards Blvd. Mississauga at 5 p.m. The event is hosted by Nach Balliye.
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You may remember Nach Balliye from my blog I wrote on its founder Sumeet Gill last year. This is the group that has been hosting some great events such as the Pink Ladoos and the Lohri for Her to promote the concept of gender equality and raise awareness about the abhorrent practice of selective abortion of female fetus.

On Jan. 25, Nach Balliye will be once again hosting its 4th annual Lohri for Her at the Versailles Convention Centre at 6721 Edwards Blvd. Mississauga. There’s a popular segment called Lohri Princesses in which parents of a girl child parade their precious blessings and celebrate her arrival in their lives. This is a hugely popular event and tickets get sold quickly and have to be purchased in advance. Proceeds go towards Nach Balliye’s initiatives. Interested? Please contact Gurleen Sidhu at 647-519-9335 or visit www.lohriforher.com.

An empty belly fuels Wali Shah’s music

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“After this, he knew his record would never be gone,
And worst of all they cuffed him right in front of his mom,
They threw him in the back, as his mother’s eyes filled with tears,
He spent that night behind bars,
And crushed his fantasy of having money and fast cars”

Wali (Flo) Shah, 20

Wali Shah, 20, a rap artist got entangled with the wrong crowd during his preteens. But, he has since turned his life around and was declared one of Canada's 20 Under 20 last year. Supplied photo.

As a pre-teen, Wali Shah a rap artist, got entangled with the wrong crowd. He has since turned his life around and is now an inspirational speaker/ambassador for United Way of Peel Region. Wali was declared one of Canada’s 20 Under 20 last year. Supplied photo.

Two poignant and powerful moments in Wali Shah’s life put it into context.

Wali was voted one of Canada’s 20 under 20 in 2014, but before he reached there, he journeyed through some pretty rough waters.

He hit rock bottom five years ago when cops showed up at his doorstep and slapped him with multiple assault charges. Just as he was being escorted out of the building, the troubled teen noticed his mother—who had stepped out for some errands earlier— enter the lobby. As she took in the scene, a look of utter dejection crossed her face and seconds later her eyes filled with tears.

“Even now when I think about it, it’s hard to comprehend that I put my family and myself through that,” he said.

At the time of the arrest, Wali was a rebel and a hotheaded kid that was part of a local gang. He routinely got into scraps with the law. After he was hauled away, he spent the night in the slammer where in solitude, shame and confusion, he decided to turn his life around.

“I was 15 when I was arrested,” he said. “I spent the night in jail, alone and cold. It was a wake-up call. I realized I was trying to be someone I was not. The whole night, I was haunted by the look on my mother’s face.”

Fast-forward to February 2013: As Wali pulls out a stack of unopened mail from the very lobby where he did the prep walk years before, he notices an envelope from University of Toronto. It turns out to be an acceptance letter.

He can’t wait to tell the news to his ammi (Mom) who he discovers is feeling under the weather that day. But, one look at her son’s flushed face, ammi’s concerns — and old fears — surface, “Oh, Wali, what trouble have you gotten into, now?”

Ammi somehow gets busy and couple of hours later, she summons Wali and demands to know the cause of his earlier agitation.

“She starts reading the letter and by the time she’s finished, she has  tears in her eyes,” Wali said adding his mother’s tears have the power to create a seismic effect on his own emotions. “That was the most powerful moment in my life because my mom has always been so keen on me having an education and becoming a better person. The letter was finally something tangible that I could show her…”

The poignant moment did not end there.

“I then thanked her for all the days she struggled in this country to give me and my siblings a better education, life and opportunities,” he said. “I told her the letter was a small testament of the new me.”

Wali, 20, is a spoken word/rap artist with an album, Rhythm & Poetry, under his belt. His video, King of the Castle, which highlighted issues of bullying and violence in schools, garnered more than 70,000 views when it was released a couple of years ago. He’s also a second-year student at U of T, Mississauga.

Most people assume poverty does not exist in an affluent country like Canada. But, for many immigrants that end up in low paying and transient jobs because their foreign credentials are unrecognized, poverty is real. Wali’s family was one of them. As a child, he remembers eating cereal without the milk and being hungry all the time.

“We struggled a lot and there were a lot of tough days,” he said. “I didn’t really know where I fit in. I wanted to be a cool and popular kid that people respected. There was a whole phase where I didn’t know where I belonged. So, eventually I started leaning more towards the not-so-nice peer group in school.”

His parents tried to knock some sense into him, but as he became swept in a powerful current, Wali became immune to common sense.

The night in the lock-up delivered a much-needed dose of reality. He began to hit the books and was soon rewarded with good grades. Then, slowly other piece fell into the place. The angry young man found his voice— and his place — and graduated high school with decent grades.

Through the transformative power of his music and spoken word, Wali began to reach out to others in the community. He became an ambassador for United Way of Peel Region and began sharing his life lessons with other at-risk youth.

“As I started shaping my life, I wanted my music to represent something positive,” he said. “I wanted something that would have an impact. So, in my last year of high school, I made King of the Castle, which was about anti-bullying. Tens of thousands of people have since watched the video.”

MTV Canada featured the video at We Day in Toronto and Wali’s chest puffed in pride when Selena Gomez introduced the segment.

“The video is testament that if you believe in the right things, people will support it and it will spread,” Wali said. “You can use music or whatever your art form is for a good cause.”

 

Brar’s hits a sweet spot for desis during Diwali

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Brar's, a popular restaurant and sweet shop, is famous for it's milk cake. This Diwali the company has produced 175,000 lbs. of food/sweets for Diwali

Brar’s, a popular restaurant and sweet shop, is famous for it’s milk cake. This Diwali the company has produced 175,000 lbs. of food/sweets in anticipation of Diwali. Photo courtesy Brar Food Culture of India

Thirteen years ago, when my family and I landed in the True North, that first Diwali, a few of us piled on to our cars and drove some 35 kilometres to Gerrard Street. It was a tired and dated boulevard some of you know as “Little India.” The experience lacked the characteristic boisterousness of  celebrations back home.

Today, it’s a completely different landscape in the Greater Toronto Area (GTA). There are dozens of ethnic stores, smack dab in our neighbourhoods offering stunning diyas (earthen lamps), fireworks and mouth-watering mithai (sweets). You can fill all of the delicious confectionery in designer gift boxes embellished, with colourful stones and beads.

In the next few days, some of us will likely make a trip to Brar’s, an iconic restaurant/sweet shop to pick-up their signature milk cake, both regular and the chocolate infused version, motichoor ladoos and other assorted barfis.

Dial Pabla, 65, founder of Brar’s Food Cultures of India, eldest of seven children, landed in Canada in 1979 and set about translating his dream into a multimillion business. Today, that business spans across five countries. This is his story.

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Competing restaurateurs have tried sneaking their chefs into Brar’s  in an effort to decode the recipes, but these folks have met with little success.

That’s because the special ingredients, the proportion and processes are all a well-guarded secret, and kept under lock and key.

Dial, who tweaked the original recipes with his ingenuity, can afford to be smug because the recipes are a result of years of innovation and creativity. They cannot be replicated with a mere taste test. God knows, many have attempted.

Dial Pabla, founder/owner of Brar's Food Culture of India started the company in the early '80s with one small store. Today, his empire extends to multiple restaurants and a manufacturing plant as well. Photo courtesy of Brar's Food Culture of India.

Dial Pabla, founder/owner of Brar’s Food Culture of India, started the company in the early ’80s with one small store. Today, his empire extends to multiple restaurants and a manufacturing plant as well.
Photo courtesy of Brar’s Food Culture of India.

“Our mithai is revolutionary because other people cannot knock-off our mithai,” Dennis Pabla, Dial’s son said. “My dad has used secret ingredients and has special formula.”

Pabla built his empire based on his love for food.  This year, the company has produced/made some 175,000 pounds of sweets and other products for Diwali.

The sprawling enterprise now includes chain of restaurants in the GTA, a manufacturing and distribution plant, and dozens of products that grace the shelves of supermarkets —both ethnic and mainstream —in Australia, U.S., Canada, Dubai and Singapore. The brand has become synonymous with quality.

Brar’s bustling restaurants lend a special pizzazz to the Festival of Lights. The jostling crowd, the huge tent pitched outside with rows and rows of colourful barfis, ladoos, kaju katris and salty snacks transport you to a different world.

There’s a shared feeling of camaraderie with other shoppers because every Indian here wants to recreate familiar rituals of Diwali they experienced themselves.

Dial’s enterprising venture started when he purchased a small store in Gerrard Street, some four decades ago. Few years later, he moved into a nondescript unit at a strip mall in Rexdale.

“One key thing my dad always believed in was: in order to experience real success in life, one must continue to work well beyond the eight-hour shift,” Dennis said. “My dad liked to read about Arnold Schwarzenegger and would often quote him. His favourite quote was ‘if you want to be a winner then you have to make sure you begin after everybody gives up’… “

Dial’s oft repeated words of motivation have stuck with his sons. Dennis, in turn, sprinkles our chat with liberal doses of his dad’s wisdom, one of which is: “if you rest, you’ll rust…”

Dial got into the restaurant business in the ‘80s when Canada had strict controls over imports, so the untrained chef – with an instinctive palate and visionary business acumen- improvised with products available in Canada.

A few years after setting up shop, Dial purchased two stores to launch a full-fledged restaurant. His spirit of entrepreneurship and his cooking abilities took off. Soon, he expanded into other cities.

Dial is a vegetarian and even though the market was ripe for a non-vegetarian buffet, he remained adamant about not giving in. Some years ago, he succumbed and launched a non-vegetarian place, but gave it up and instead focused on turning Brar’s into Canada’s premier vegetarian eatery. Not content to offer an extensive buffet and a sweet shop, five years ago Dial invested in state-of-the-art machinery and the company started manufacturing packaged food such as Ras malai and paneer.

“From the initial three products, we now have 40 products in stores,” Dennis said. “In the beginning, we used to count the number of grocery stores our products were in, now we count the countries…”

And while Brar’s continues on its upward trajectory building a loyal base of customers, Diwali will be that much sweeter, thanks to Dial’s recipes.

Recently, Brar's Food Culture of India, helped Nach Balliye, a youth group from Brampton to educate and promote gender equality, by donating 100 lbs. of pink ladoos. This Diwali, the company has made/produced some 175,000 pounds of food to meet the consumers' demand for Diwali. Photo courtesy, Nach Balliye.

Recently, Brar’s Food Culture of India, helped Nach Balliye, a youth group from Brampton to educate and promote gender equality, by donating 100 lbs. of pink ladoos. This Diwali, the company has made/produced some 175,000 pounds of food to meet the demand for Diwali.
Photo courtesy, Nach Balliye.

Here’s wishing you all a very Happy Diwali. Much like Dial, let’s all find and pursue our passion, and have fun making the magic happen.